Gayish: 145 Hate Crimes

While Mike selfishly celebrates his birthday in Scotland, Fucking Dan steps in as co-host so he and Kyle can tell each other horribly sad hate crime stories, including the shooting at gay bar Backstreet Cafe by Ronald Gay and the murders of Michelle Abdill, Roxanne Ellis, and Scott George by Robert Acremant.

In this episode: News(ish)- 4:12 || Main Topic (Hate Crimes)- 5:39 || Gayest & Straightest- 1:06:43

To get a bonus segment with gayta about hate crimes, go to

Gayish: 144 Sex Hotel (w/ Davey Wavey)

We face our body image issues head on when we consider getting naked at a “sex hotel” with Davey Wavey, creator of And yes, one of us gets naked. :O

In this episode: News- 4:42 || Main Topic (Sex Hotel)- 15:30 || Davey Wavey- 27:40 || Gayest & Straightest- 1:18:32

Plus, more of our discussion with Davey Wavey, including how to hook up at a bathhouse, self esteem when using sex apps, and waiting in a room ass up, all available in our bonus segment available at

Gayish: 143 Fantasies

What are your fantasies? Do gay men have nastier fantasies than the straights? Where does Mike get his erotic fiction? Plus Mike/Kyle slash fiction that makes everyone deeply uncomfortable. If you’d prefer not to hear us talk sexy to each other, skip the “Slash fiction performance” section from the timestamps below.

In this episode: News- 2:30 News || Main Topic (Fantasies)- 16:36 || Slash fiction performance- 1:03:28 || Slash fiction discussion- 1:18:17 || Gayest & Straightest- 1:23:19

Plus, Fucking Dan reads a runner-up slash fiction contest entry with a twist ending! It’s posted as a bonus segment on

Gayish: 141 Spirit(s)

Mike and Kyle talk about Spirit Day, spirits, spirits, spirit animals, and the Holy Spirit.

In this episode: News- 6:23 || Main Topic [Spirit(s)]- 18:06 || Gayest & Straightest- 42:03

Also, Dan shares his sometimes terrifying experiences of being bullied growing up in our bonus segment at

Gayish: 140 Britney Spears

IT’S BRITNEY, BITCH! In spite of his resistance, Mike remembers several moments where Britney had a major impact on his life.

In this episode: News- 3:54 || Main Topic (BRITNEY SPEARS)- 14:40 || Gayest & Straightest- 1:13:15

Also, Kyle launches into full defense mode when Fucking Dan tells him why Britney is homophobic in our bonus segment available at

Gayish: 139 Surrogacy (w/ Joseph and Brandon Peters-Mathews)

Mike and Kyle talk to a married gay couple about their baby, who is due in just a couple of weeks, and the journey they took to get there. Guests: Husbands Joseph Peters-Mathews (from Episode 37 about gay priests) and Brandon Peters-Mathews.

In this episode: News- 3:22 || Main Topic (Surrogacy)- 12:27 || Gayest & Straightest- 1:11:31

Bonus segment with more datums about same-sex couples with children available at

Gayish: 137 Dykes (w/ Hot Takes with Hot Dykes)

Astrology, the top shortage, lesbian bed death, and astrology. We talk about lesbian stereotypes with Clara Pluton and Val Nigro of the Hot Takes with Hot Dykes podcast. Oh, we also talk about astrology.

In this episode: Corrections- 2:29 || Guests Clara Pluton and Val Nigro join us to talk about dykes- 7:35 || Gayest & Straightest- 1:04:40

Bonus segment from Fucking Dan about the origin of the word “dyke” at

Gayish: 136 Rimming

Eat Ass. Love Ass. Pray Ass.

In this episode: News – 4:35 | Main Topic (Rimming) – 14:15 | Gayest & Straightest – 1:04:49

Bonus segment from Fucking Dan about his top-secret homemade lube product is available at