Gayish: 216 Butterflies 🦋

Butterflies can be a million things, like named after poop, a big ol’ bottom, Kylie Jenner’s love language, a good (or bad?) trans metaphor, a super lesbian Hong Kong film, or a song that DJ AM raps in. No matter what, we know LeVar Burton is down. 🤜🦋

In this episode: News- 9:50 || Main Topic (Butterflies)- 20:49 || Gayest & Straightest- 1:15:06

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Gayish: 215 Limp Wrists

The stereotype of the limp-wristed faggot goes back to the Romans (no, for real), and it’s one example of how gay men are trained to hate themselves from a young age. We get surprisingly personal when we talk about our experience with limp wrists.

In this episode: News- 8:58 || Main Topic (Limp Wrists)- 21:05 || Gayest & Straightest- 1:13:43

Coming soon on the Patreon bonus segment, Fucking Dan swerves on us and talks about queercore metal bands. Oh, and he cries. Get bonus segments every week for just $5/mo!

Gayish: 214 Backwards Hats

Our most drool-worthy episode yet!

In this episode: News- 1:24 || Main Topic (Backwards Hats)- 13:41 || Gayest & Straightest- 1:06:22

I’ll be honest. The bonus segment (coming soon) is just gonna be us talking about hot guys with backwards hats. Get this and more bonus content at

Gayish: 213 Florists

This episode will be known only as the originator of the Rough Fuck Me Daddy Bouquet. And what more reason do you need to listen?

In this episode: News- 1:29 || Main Topic (Florists)- 12:03 || Gayest & Straightest- 1:04:10

On Monday’s bonus segment, Dan shares floral-inspired gay history about Hibiscus and The Cockettes. Bonus content at

Gayish: 212 Tattoos

Tattoos are sexy, and so is this episode. We have surprising gatya about gay men’s opinion of guys with tattoos, the meaning of biohazard tattoos, and insight from Reddit user PM_ME_UR_GAY_COCK.

In this episode: News- 3:00 || Main Topic (Tattoos)- 14:04 || Gayest & Straightest- 1:03:43

On Monday, Fucking Dan shares the meaning behind tattoos, including the forearm one Kyle wants.

Gayish: 187 Interracial Relationships (w/ the Critelli’s from Relationsh!t)

Interracial gay couples have two strikes against them before the leave their home in the morning. We talk race and relationships with Marko and Tony Critelli, an interracial married gay couple and hosts of the podcast Relationsh!t.

In this episode: News- 4:34 || Main Topic (Interracial Relationships)-  26:27 || Guests (Marko and Tony Critelli from Relationsh!t)- 31:21 || Gayest & Straightest- 1:15:23

On Monday’s bonus episode, the actual, genuine conversation with had with Marko and Tony during the break! We did it right this time! That and more bonus stuff available at

Gayish: 186 Swingers

Are there gay swingers?  We sure hope so, although per usual we have no idea.  Suggested to us by a Patreon supporter, we take a look at “the lifestyle” in typical Gayish fashion.
In this episode: News- 1:22 || Main Topic (Swingers)-  17:04 || Gayest & Straightest- 1:03:01
On the bonus segment coming Monday, Fucking Dan gives us an update on the Palm Springs Sex Hotel we went to with Davey Wavey in Episode 144.

Gayish: 185 Football (w/ Butz from My Gay Life)

We talk American football with Cyndi Butz-Houghton aka Butz from the podcast My Gay Life. She shares her thoughts on football lesbians, lingerie football, being bad at softball, and trans women in sports.

In this episode: News- 3:44 || Main Topic (Football)-  17:25 || Guest (Butz)- 28:27 || Gayest & Straightest- 1:00:51

On the bonus segment coming Monday, we’ll have more with Butz on why women’s football mascots are better than men’s and other topics we didn’t get to on the main episode.

Gayish: 184 Sexting

Eggplant. Water spurts. Peach, peach, peach. Devil emoji. We talk about the studies on sexters vs. non-sexters, the bizarre history of sexting, and emoji misunderstandings.


In this episode: News- 2:34 || Main Topic (Sexting)- 14:49 || Gayest & Straightest- 1:12:20


On the bonus segment, coming soon, we’ll read tips from the internet on sexting and debate their efficacy. 

Gayish:183 Rodeo

Ma Johnson joins us to play a game of “Rodeo Term or Sex Act.” Also, the gay rodeo, bareback, Willie Nelson, Lil Nas X, and lots of talk about gay cowboys.


In this episode: News- 1:31 || Main Topic (Rodeo)- 17:31 || Gayest & Straightest- 1:01:30